Working
couples and single moms often overburdened with their work commitments find it really hard to
spare enough time for their young kids. Their woes get rather worse if their
kids are too young. Hiring a maid seems a practical solution for working people
but you will never be 100% if your young one is taken proper care of and safe.
Several stories in popular press and videos on social networks tell
heartbreaking stories of babies who became a victim of those who supposed to
look after them.
Important
question for such parents is how to determine if their young one is properly
taken care of when they are away? And if their kid is being maltreated or
tortured how to spot it before it is too late? As a matter of fact, it is
really hard to answer these questions with certainty. However, there are few
things that can enable them to detect if there young one is being ill-treated,
mishandled, or tortured.
Look
for any spots on baby’s body
As
you step back home, your first assignment is to check the body of your baby
thoroughly. If you find any unusual sign or spot on your kid’s body, it may be
first warning about your baby’s safety. Depending upon the type and severity of
what you found on baby’s body, you can guess if your kid is subject to maid’s
torture or any abuse.
Your
baby’s behaviour
Your
kid’s behaviour towards his/her maid is an important indicator of how he/she is
being taken care of in your absence. If baby shows a disapproval or gets
frightened and cries when you try to pass on him/her to maid, probably it is a
strongest indicator that your kid is not properly taken care of or subjected to
torture.
Make
surprise visits
Your
unscheduled visit may reveal truly how well maid you hired is good to your
baby. Surprise visits don’t allow for cover up and have the potential to expose
the true picture.
Make phone calls at regular intervals
While
you are away and busy addressing your daily meetings, e mails and deadlines,
spare few moments to call back at home and know about how your kid is and what
he/she is doing? Try to get an idea about the mood of your baby, if he/she is
happy or crying.
CCTV
cameras
Get
help from technology; get a camera installed in your baby’s room. This would
not only allow you to monitor maid’s performance but also deter maid/babysitter
to ignore, mishandle or torture your young one.
Managing work and family is among hardest challenges of life.
ReplyDeleteAgree. Raising a family and working is no way easy stuff.
ReplyDeleteGood stuff. Kids'upbringing is huge challenge for working couples.
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